World Affairs And Beyond

During my last trip to the tribal region in the north of Pakistan, I found myself once again in the company of Baba Jee before heading back to Karachi. His dwelling, a simple abode, welcomed me with a warmth that transcended its humble surroundings. As I approached, I noticed Baba Jee seated on a worn rug in his mud courtyard, soaking in the golden sunlight. "Baba Jee, it's good to see you again," I greeted him, to which he responded with a welcoming smile. "Come, sit beside me," he gestured to the rug, "and share what's on your mind." Seating myself on the rug, I began to recount various incidents from my life, seeking Baba Jee's guidance. His wise eyes listened attentively, and when I finished, he shared his insights. "My child, let me offer you a piece of advice," he began, his voice carrying the weight of experience. "Never flaunt your wealth or discuss your riches with those who may not share similar financial circumstances.

I feel profound gratitude for the nights that gracefully transformed into mornings, each moment etching itself into the canvas of my heart. Those late hours, bathed in shared laughter and intimate conversations, hold a special place in my soul. They forged connections that transcend mere friendship, evolving into bonds as resilient and comforting as family ties. In the quiet transition from darkness to dawn, I discovered the enduring beauty of relationships that blossomed beneath the soft glow of the moon. My heart swells with appreciation for friends who have seamlessly woven themselves into the fabric of my life, transforming into a chosen family. Together, we've weathered storms, celebrated triumphs, and stood side by side through the ebb and flow of life. These connections go beyond the superficial; they are the anchors grounding me in a world that can often feel tumultuous. The understanding, love, and unwavering support we share illuminate the profound truth that real kinship

In a world of transactional hearts,  Where love seems to play its part,  I ponder on what's real and true,  Is there a love that's pure and new? They say to marry for love's embrace,  Yet what I see is a different case,  A romance with terms and conditions,  Leaving me with lingering suspicions. In this dance of give and take,  Is there a love that won't forsake?  I long to find a love so sincere,  One that's not fueled by wants and fear. Where can I seek this genuine flame,  Unburdened by a hidden aim?  True love, a mystery untold,  In a realm where hearts unfold. Is it found in whispered words,  Or actions that speak louder than birds?  I search for love that's not a trade,  A bond that won't easily fade. Define for me this elusive bliss,  What makes a love that's more than this?  Not just a contract, a deal, a pact,  But a connection that's hard to extract. I yearn to know where true love lies,  Beneath the surface, beyond the skies.  Guide me to

In the beginning, a whisper of time, A fraction so small, a cosmic rhyme. The Universe birthed, a grand display, Inflation danced, expanding its way. Faster than light, a cosmic race, Inflation's sprint, a vast embrace. Driven by vacuum energy's might, Expanding swiftly, out of sight. A blink in time, a moment brief, From atom's cradle to stadium's relief. Inflation waltzed, a fleeting spree, Transforming cosmos for all to see. As the dance concluded, energy's shift, A cosmic script, a celestial gift. Matter emerged, a cosmic thread, A symphony played as the Universe spread. From inflation's grip to plasma's hug, A transition swift, a cosmic tug. Hot and dense, a primordial dance, The Big Bang's moment, a cosmic trance. © Sobia Nosheen

Journey through life's unpredictable twists, Discover the power of forgiving mists. In the steaming dance of time, Compassion's rhythm, a soothing rhyme. Explore the realms of hearts set free, Release the burden of enmity. A poetic tale of forgiveness' art, Healing wounds, a fresh start. Embrace the love, let grudges fade, Life's brief moments, in kindness laid. © Sobia Nosheen (13th December 2023)

Life is like a journey with twists and turns, Love is a lesson, and each heart yearns. "If you are unsure," people say, Just wait for love to come your way. Don't feel too sad, don't wear a frown, True love's test won't let you down. When someone special comes into view, That's when you'll know what love can do. It's fine to feel hurt, to shed a tear, Let your emotions be crystal clear. Feel the pain, but don't let it stay, In time, it'll slowly fade away. May you find a love that's pure, A love that helps your heart endure. Like a cosy home, warm and bright, Filled with joy and pure delight. No tests, no worries, just reach for the sky, A love that makes you feel so high. Trust unbroken, strong and true, A loyal companion just for you. May your heart find peace, strength, and grace, In love's enfold, a warm embrace. As you heal, your spirit renewed, A love so bright, forever pursued.

In the journey of life, it's crucial to recognize and appreciate the kindness extended to us by others, each in their own unique way. Whether big or small, these acts of kindness contribute to the fabric of our existence, and it's essential to express gratitude. In this interconnected world, it's also wise to place trust and expectations in a higher power, be it God or any divine force one believes in. By doing so, we can find solace in the understanding that humans, despite their best intentions, are limited in their abilities. Human beings are just that; human. While their presence in our lives is a gift to be cherished, expecting them to be all-mighty is unrealistic. This acknowledgement is not a dismissal of their importance, but rather a reminder that they, too, have their own set of limitations. Gratitude for the people who bring positivity into our lives should be the focal point. Instead of burdening them with unrealistic expectations, we should embrace the uniquene

Amid life's busyness, we often find ourselves dedicated to nurturing the well-being of others. Like diligent gardeners, we water the plants in other people's lives, ensuring they bloom and flourish. Yet, amidst this altruistic endeavour, there's a tendency to overlook the garden we call our own. The metaphorical concept of tending to our own garden is a powerful reminder of the importance of self-care and self-nurturing. It echoes the wisdom that sometimes, in our eagerness to help others thrive, we inadvertently neglect the well-being of our own emotional, mental, and physical landscapes. Consider this: we water the plants in another person's life by offering support, lending a listening ear, and providing comfort. These actions are beautiful expressions of empathy and compassion. However, the danger lies in consistently directing all our energies outward, leaving our internal garden parched and neglected. Just like a garden requires a careful balance of sunlight, wate

In days gone by, a friend so dear,  Brought joy to life, made everything clear.  With smiles that shone, like sunshine's gleam,  And laughter, a melody, a joyful dream. But then a change, a mystery unfolds,  His smile faded, his laughter in cold folds.  Quiet and sad, no words to say,  He turned away, drifted far away. Your laughter, a song I miss so much,  A lyric of joy, a magical touch.  Your smile, a beacon, lit up the space,  But now it's gone, leaving an empty place. Once the king of giggles, now so quiet,  Hardly a laugh, a sombre, silent riot.  I long to see that joy again,  To bring back the sunshine, dispel the pain. What happened, my friend, I wish to know,  To understand the reasons, to help you grow.  How can I bring your smile back to stay?  And make your giggles dance, bright as day? Let's find a way to turn the tide,  Bring back the laughter, side by side.  For in your smile, the world found light,  And in your g

Dear friend, you are so talented, divine,  Your baking prowess, a gift so fine.  The brownies you just made, perfection's embrace,  Out of this world, a sweet celestial grace. The yummiest brownies ever, a taste so rare,  One bite and I'm in heaven, floating on air.  Super amazing, each chocolaty delight,  A rhapsody of flavours, a culinary flight. Keep making more, let your talents unfold,  These brownies are treasures, more precious than gold.  Better than all I've tasted, a sweet revelation,  In every morsel, a delectable sensation. With each batch you create, a masterpiece anew,  Your culinary artistry, a talent true.  Dear friend, your baking, a wonder to savour,  In the world of brownies, you're the ultimate flavour. © Sobia Nosheen (2nd December 2023)

Dear friend, a heartfelt request I send,  Our friendship, like a torn page, on the mend.  Recall the moments, joy in the air,  Tea and brownies, a bond we used to wear. You brewed tea, skies heavy with gray,  Brownies baked, brightening the day.  In the chaos, when burdens grew,  You refreshed my spirit, my anchor true. Alone now, stirring tea feels incomplete,  A void lingers, the taste not as sweet.  You are crucial, my friend, let us rewind,  Rekindle the warmth, leave the past behind. Enmity between us, like shadows cast,  Let's erase it, and reclaim what has passed.  To be friends again, like days of old,  A tale of friendship, beautifully retold. Imagine the laughter, the warmth, the cheer,  Sharing tea and brownies, so dear.  I miss that, my friend, can't you see?  Let's revive our friendship, just you and me. © Sobia Nosheen (30th November 2023)

In a world torn apart by war's despair, Where bombs fall, and hope's a rare affair. Running for life, each dawn unsure, In shadows of fear, where dreams obscure. Yet, in my mind's haven, a special place, Close your eyes, join me in this space. A garden green, by a peaceful lake, With the one I love, a sweet escape we make. No harsh words here, just kindness flows, Clouds painting stories as the gentle wind blows. A cottage by the water, our humble abode, Where love is planted, and dreams are sowed. In the backyard, a kitchen we've made, Growing our food, in the sunlight's shade. On the grass, I lay, clouds above me, Their shapes a dance, a sight to see. Breathing in peace, love, and joy, Free from the world's harsh employ. As I leave, the magic clings, A shield against the world's harsh stings. This refuge, my solace, a haven so grand, In the cradle of dreams, where realities stand. Strength to endure, in this secr

When others depart, the illusion persists,  Death seems a distant tale, for others to enlist.  In this shared belief, many hearts reside,  That mortality is distant, a truth denied. When a soul departs, eyes seek earthly gain,  A misguided pursuit, in loss and in pain.  Yet, the wisdom lies in the quiet breath,  Life's temporary nature, a dance with death. In the face of loss, the common refrain,  "I'll live without you," the heart's silent strain.  As if time stretches in limitless grace,  Forgetting life's brevity, the finite space. The essence of departure, a fierce guide,  Teaching that possessions in life subside.  Not truly ours, nor yours, nor their own,  In the dance with mortality, seeds are sown. Let not death be viewed through a narrow lens,  A reminder intense, as life transcends.  All that we claim, all we hold so dear,  Temporary echoes, in the cosmic sphere. For when others depart, what we truly find,  I

In the quiet spaces where shadows play,  A tale unfolds, a love kept at bay.  Two souls wreathed, a secret shared,  In a world that whispers, they remain ensnared. Beneath the star-lit sky, a silent ballet,  Two hearts in rhythm, yet words unsay.  No confessions made, no vows declared,  In the hush of the night, a connection bared. She, a seasoned traveller of life's unknown, He, a heart untamed, yet both have grown. No proclamations uttered, no promises bind, In the silent sparks, their emotions find. A glance exchanged, like a secret code, In the unspoken, their story is bestowed. Away from judgment, societal decree, A love concealed, yet wild and free. In stolen moments, when no eyes pry, They dance in shadows, beneath the sky. A forbidden waltz, a tender embrace, In the quiet spaces, love finds its place. Unseen gestures, like petals unfurled, In the secret garden of their own world. No need for words, as the heart understands, In t

When the curtain falls on your existence, a symphony of grief will resonate among your loved ones, its echoes reverberating for a temporal span. Whether shedding genuine tears or donning a mask of sorrow, relatives will partake in this emotional cadence during your funeral and sporadic encounters with your immediate family within the inaugural week, only to gradually relinquish the facade. Some, enticed by financial motives, might choreograph poignant displays of lament, while spouses could orchestrate elaborate productions, complete with new partners in tow. Yet, the ephemerality of sorrow becomes evident as time unfurls its chapters. The poignant chords within your immediate family, spanning siblings and parents, will gradually attenuate. Life's ceaseless rhythm, indifferent to your culinary abstinence or subterranean repose, will propel everyone forward. To harbor the illusion that self-inflicted departure serves as a poignant retaliation, capable of unsettling or influencing ot

Finding a job involves a strategic and proactive approach. Here are some steps to help you in your job search: 1. Self-Assessment: Identify your skills, strengths, and interests. Understanding what you have to offer will help you target suitable positions and articulate your value to potential employers. 2. Define Your Goals: Clarify the type of job you're seeking, industry preferences, and long-term career goals. This will guide your search and help you tailor your application materials. 3. Build a Strong Resume: Create a compelling resume that highlights your relevant experience, skills, and achievements. Tailor it for each job application to match the specific requirements of the position. 4. Create an Online Presence: Develop a professional LinkedIn profile. Connect with professionals in your industry, join relevant groups, and share content related to your field. An online presence can increase your visibility to potential employers. 5. Networking: Leverage your professional a

The sun was setting, casting a warm, golden hue over the courtyard where Baba Jee sat every evening. His weathered face carried tales of wisdom, and his eyes sparkled with a glint of insight. I often found solace in his stories, seeking guidance from his years of experience. This evening, I approached him, eager for a conversation that weighed heavy on my mind. "Salaam, Baba Jee," I greeted respectfully, settling down on the mat next to him. "Wa alaikum as-salam, Sobia, my dear child. What brings you here today?" he responded, his voice soft but laden with an air of authority. "I wanted to talk to you about friendships and relationships," I began tentatively. "I've been thinking a lot about who real friends are and also about the kind of person one should look for when thinking about marriage." Baba Jee nodded, his eyes seemingly scanning the distant horizon. "Ah, friendships and marriages. Two paths intertwined with the fabric of trust,

Amidst an ever-changing world, uncertainty becomes a prevailing reality for individuals and organizations. To navigate and thrive within this ambiguous landscape, a versatile and multifaceted approach is necessary. The first step involves embracing adaptability. Adapting to change rather than resisting it allows for a more proactive response to unforeseen circumstances. It fosters flexibility and openness to new possibilities. Strategic planning is another crucial aspect. Creating plans for various potential outcomes enables better preparedness. Envisioning and strategizing for multiple scenarios equips individuals and entities to better navigate unexpected turns. Collaboration plays a significant role in mitigating the weight of uncertainty. By pooling diverse perspectives and collective wisdom, the burden becomes lighter, fostering innovative solutions and shared responsibility. Experimentation through trial and error is a potent approach. Embracing iterative experimentation allows f

The weight of betrayal and the realization that those I believed were mine were mere illusions shattered my spirit, making every step feel arduous. A heavy heart cast shadows upon my path, as if the gravity of the world had increased, making it difficult to move forward. It felt as if my soul had drifted away, leaving behind a hollow shell in motion. I’ve always been the rock for others, yet the truth of feeling alone in a world I thought was filled with allies now weighs me down. The bitter realization of the scarcity of genuine reciprocity in human connections has left a profound impact. Despite being there for everyone, sincere companionship remains elusive. Each encounter with deceit strengthens my resolve to become my own confidant and friend. As I approach the new year, my resolution grows firm: to be my own anchor, sanctuary, and most loyal ally. My commitment is clear – to treat myself with the same kindness and compassion I've offered to others, to prioritize personal well

Uncertainty, the unwelcome companion of indecision, often casts a shadow on our plans and decision-making. From the undisclosed location I’ve been visiting for a month and now preparing to travel back to Karachi, the weight of indecision has made its presence felt. The dilemma of determining travel dates and subsequent arrangements, such as buying gifts to take back, has disrupted the flow of plans, leaving essential tasks pending and complicating the journey ahead. Recognizing the distress caused by this uncertainty, a pivotal decision emerges: purchasing a ticket for a fixed departure date to Karachi. This single action serves as a beacon of certainty, allowing a structured plan to fall into place. The fog of indecision lifts, paving the way for a streamlined process, particularly in shopping for gifts and ensuring necessary preparations before the journey. However, the burden of uncertainty extends beyond immediate travel plans. The long-postponed overseas travel looms, laden with a

The Afghan refugee crisis in Pakistan remains a poignant and multifaceted issue, defined by the mass displacement of Afghans who have sought shelter from the perils of conflict, persecution, and instability in their homeland. In current times, the Pakistani government has embarked on a course to repatriate Afghan refugees, underscoring the need to address illegal immigration and emphasizing its sovereign right to enforce its laws. Over the past four decades, Pakistan has been a steadfast host to one of the world's largest refugee populations, providing refuge and opportunities to millions of Afghans. Recent measures initiated by the Pakistani government primarily target individuals lacking proper documentation, with provisions for special consideration given to the elderly, children, and women. These actions reflect the complexities of managing illegal immigration while honouring the nation's historical commitment to Afghan refugees. The decision to repatriate Afghan refugees h

Maintaining an unshakable sense of peace despite the plots and ill intentions of others is rooted in my unwavering belief that I am divinely protected, with the knowledge that God watches over me. It's an assurance that no matter what schemes may be devised against me, there is a higher power that ultimately governs the fate of those who intend harm. My faith in God's divine protection is a cornerstone of my perspective on life. It reminds me that, as long as I act with integrity and goodness, I am under the shelter of a higher power, and no harm can truly befall me without my consent or God's allowance. Evil individuals who plot against me will inevitably face the consequences of their own malevolent schemes. Knowing this, I choose to hold only peace in my heart and mind. I do not carry the burden of their negativity or ill will. Instead, I rely on my faith in divine protection, recognizing that the universe operates on principles of justice and balance. This perspective e

In a world often overshadowed by challenges and uncertainties, the pursuit of positivity remains a powerful and transformative mindset. The act of looking for the good in every situation is not merely a cliché but a profound approach that can significantly impact one’s perspective, behaviour, and overall well-being. Embracing optimism involves training the mind to seek the silver lining in even the most challenging circumstances. It's about acknowledging the presence of difficulties while focusing on the opportunities and lessons they bring. This proactive outlook empowers individuals to navigate life’s ups and downs with resilience and strength. The power of seeking the good in every situation lies in its ability to shift perspectives. It challenges the conventional way of perceiving events. Rather than dwelling on negativity or setbacks, this approach prompts individuals to reframe their thinking, viewing obstacles as opportunities for growth and learning. Studies show that a pos

In the vibrant world of fashion and cultural heritage, the dupatta stands as an iconic piece that not only complements attire but also carries significant symbolism and meaning. Among the spectrum of colours available, the light purple dupatta, in particular, holds a unique allure and a plethora of benefits beyond its aesthetic appeal. In many cultures, the dupatta is not merely an accessory but a symbol of grace, modesty, and tradition. The colour purple, often associated with royalty and spirituality, adds depth and meaning to this already symbolic garment. The light purple shade, in particular, signifies creativity, intuition, and a sense of calm, making it a popular choice for various occasions and moods. The subtle yet distinctive charm of a light purple dupatta lies in its ability to effortlessly elevate any outfit. Whether paired with a simple kurta or a heavily embroidered ensemble, the soft hue adds a touch of sophistication and refinement. It harmonizes splendidly with a rang

Love, the powerful force that binds hearts and souls, often reveals its true depth in moments of parting. The sentiment expressed in the quote, "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation," encapsulates the poignant truth that the full magnitude of love remains obscured until the shadow of separation looms. It is in these moments of impending loss or distance that the profound depths of love become starkly apparent. Love is a complex emotion, transcending boundaries, cultures, and time. In the throes of daily life, it can be easy to take the depth of love for granted. Routine can cloak the intensity of emotions, allowing us to overlook the profound impact that our connections have on us. However, when faced with the impending separation from a loved one, whether it's physical distance, the end of a relationship, or the passing of a dear soul, the depths of love are profoundly stirred. The impending separation acts as a catalyst, peeling away the layers of f

In a world where effort and persistence are hailed as virtues on the path to success, the idea of not trying might sound counterintuitive. Yet, there's a nuanced perspective that suggests sometimes not trying can be the key to achieving our goals. Often, when we fervently attempt to accomplish something and it continually eludes us, it can foster a sense of frustration and negativity. This negative association with the unachieved goal may inadvertently create an energy that repels rather than attracts what we desire. It's a concept that delves into the realms of the law of attraction and the power of the mind over our reality. The notion goes something like this: our thoughts and emotions emit a certain vibration or frequency, and the things we desire also resonate at a particular frequency. When our thoughts and desires are not aligned, the incongruence can act as a barrier, preventing us from manifesting our goals. Consider a scenario where an individual ardently pursues a ca

As a sapiosexual, my attraction lies in the depth of intellect, the warmth of kindness, and the purity of innocence. It's not merely a preference; it's a fundamental aspect of my identity, drawing me toward a connection that surpasses the confines of physical appeal and seeks a more profound mental and emotional bond. For me, being a sapiosexual isn't just about intelligence; it's about the beautiful amalgamation of intelligence, innocence, and kindness that sparks my interest. The attraction doesn't stem solely from a sharp wit or vast knowledge but is complemented by an unadulterated perception of life and a compassionate nature. When engaging with others, I find that being asked illogical or superficial questions is a significant turn-off. It's not about intelligence alone but also about the blend of innocence and kindness that colours the interaction and makes it profoundly engaging for me. Moreover, I am immensely drawn to individuals who not only possess i

In twilight's realm where shadows play,  I find my place, both night and day.  Existence fluid, undefined,  A dance of spirit, unconfined. In boxes, some their lives enshroud,  Yet I, a wisp, in veils, am proud.  A puzzle piece, a shapeless form,  A spirit free in life's grand storm. Through realms of soul, I freely glide,  Infinite as the ocean's tide,  A whispered breeze, a fading thought,  In essence boundless, never caught. In this paradoxical sphere I dwell,  A life untamed, a mystic spell,  A consonance of both and none,  My existence in the setting sun. © Sobia Nosheen (October 2023)

In the digital age, with the internet just a click away, access to explicit content has never been easier. Pornography has become a ubiquitous part of modern life, but what many may not realize is the profound impact it can have on a man's well-being and happiness. In this article, we'll delve into the ways in which watching porn can erode a man's happiness and offer some insights on how to break free from this potentially destructive habit. Understanding the Allure of Pornography Before we explore the negative effects, it's essential to acknowledge the reasons behind the allure of pornography. Porn offers a temporary escape from reality, providing a quick dopamine rush and a sense of pleasure. For many single men, it can serve as a substitute for genuine intimacy when relationships are lacking. However, this temporary pleasure often comes at a steep cost. Escalating Desensitization One of the most insidious aspects of porn consumption is desensitization. Over time, ind