World Affairs And Beyond

In a world torn apart by war's despair, Where bombs fall, and hope's a rare affair. Running for life, each dawn unsure, In shadows of fear, where dreams obscure. Yet, in my mind's haven, a special place, Close your eyes, join me in this space. A garden green, by a peaceful lake, With the one I love, a sweet escape we make. No harsh words here, just kindness flows, Clouds painting stories as the gentle wind blows. A cottage by the water, our humble abode, Where love is planted, and dreams are sowed. In the backyard, a kitchen we've made, Growing our food, in the sunlight's shade. On the grass, I lay, clouds above me, Their shapes a dance, a sight to see. Breathing in peace, love, and joy, Free from the world's harsh employ. As I leave, the magic clings, A shield against the world's harsh stings. This refuge, my solace, a haven so grand, In the cradle of dreams, where realities stand. Strength to endure, in this secr...

In the quiet spaces where shadows play,  A tale unfolds, a love kept at bay.  Two souls wreathed, a secret shared,  In a world that whispers, they remain ensnared. Beneath the star-lit sky, a silent ballet,  Two hearts in rhythm, yet words unsay.  No confessions made, no vows declared,  In the hush of the night, a connection bared. She, a seasoned traveller of life's unknown, He, a heart untamed, yet both have grown. No proclamations uttered, no promises bind, In the silent sparks, their emotions find. A glance exchanged, like a secret code, In the unspoken, their story is bestowed. Away from judgment, societal decree, A love concealed, yet wild and free. In stolen moments, when no eyes pry, They dance in shadows, beneath the sky. A forbidden waltz, a tender embrace, In the quiet spaces, love finds its place. Unseen gestures, like petals unfurled, In the secret garden of their own world. No need for words, as the ...

In the complex world of human relationships, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions and attachments. We often find ourselves investing our time, energy, and emotions into individuals who, in hindsight, may not have been the best recipients for our love and affection. It's a common human experience to give our hearts to those who need a brain – people who may not appreciate or reciprocate the depth of our feelings. In this article, we'll explore the concept of being discerning in our emotional investments and discuss why it's crucial to stop giving your heart to such individuals. Before delving deeper into this topic, it's essential to understand the difference between people who genuinely deserve our love and those who might not. People who need a brain in this context are those who display characteristics or behaviours that make them unsuitable for a deep emotional connection. This can encompass a range of traits, including selfishness, emotional u...

Souls meet in this realm,  Confined in earthly vessels, dwell,  In bodies, our love constrained,  This union, a heart's silent refrain. Each touch, a glimpse of grace,  Love's yearning, a timeless chase,  Yet, these bodies, barriers they seem,  Two souls imprisoned in a dream. The real rendezvous, untethered and pure,  In the realm of souls, we endure,  Love's dance, unbound and free,  Infinite love, our destiny. Where bodies fade, souls unite,  In the realm of love's pure light,  No barriers, no chains to bind,  Two souls, forever unified. In that sacred space, we'll find,  Love's essence, one of a kind,  Souls in harmony, forever closely tied,  The union of hearts, love undefined. © Sobia Nosheen (20th October 2023)

Marriage is a profound journey, a union of two souls embarking on a lifelong adventure. Yet, this path is often riddled with challenges, and the key to a successful married life lies in navigating those challenges together. In this guide, we will explore the building blocks of a successful married life, drawing from time-tested wisdom and contemporary insights to help you build a strong and lasting relationship. Communication: The Cornerstone of Connection Effective communication is the foundation upon which a successful married life is built. It's the bridge that connects two individuals, allowing them to understand each other's thoughts, emotions, and needs. To nurture this crucial aspect of your relationship: 1. Active Listening: Take the time to truly listen to your partner. Give them your undivided attention, ask questions, and show empathy. Being heard is a fundamental human need, and active listening is a way to fulfill this need for your spouse. 2. Open and Honest Dial...

In shadows cast by moonlight's gentle gleam, A tale of forbidden love, a secret dream. Two hearts as one, an untold truth concealed, A guarded secret, a love never revealed. Whispers in the night, a stolen glance, In the dance of secrecy, they took the chance. But lips could not confess what hearts did know, Their love, a hidden river's ceaseless flow. Oh, the world may never learn their sweet refrain, For they cannot disclose their love's true pain. In this life, they part, in silence they must grieve, But maybe in a next lifetime, they'll believe. In that distant realm where secrets find release, They'll share the love that yearned for endless peace. "I will let you know," their promise to renew, "How much I loved you, in that life, it's true." © Sobia Nosheen

I have come across people who enter into marriages, particularly love marriages, with the hope that they will transform their lives magically. They think love marriages are like magic, and work miracles; the way they see on television. If you are not happy being single, you can never be happy being married. Happiness comes from within. Marriage, be it arranged or love, needs a lot of work. Building homes takes energy, time, compromises and patience. It does not need "love" alone. Homes break when you listen to the judgements of other people about the people you live with. First of all, when entering into a love marriage, if you expect all your wishes and desires to be met by your loyal slave only at the wave of your magic wand, then you are an idiot. That is not how marriages work. If you enter into marriage with the aim of controlling your in-laws, you are being an idiot once again, driven by Adrenalin and ambition, or maybe by Star Plus. You probably could not find...

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A saying goes that you are only as old as you feel. That is right. You act old when you feel old, and you act young when you feel young. It is not always about how you look, or about how your skin appears to others. Most of us strive to look youthful on the outside. People will do almost anything to retain their youth, especially the women. They will try everything to keep their skin from getting cracked or wrinkled, and their hair from turning grey.     I know someone who constantly worries about how her face is getting all wrinkled up. Worrying and applying almost anything on her skin to try to make it appear youthful. Staying young does not necessarily have to mean looking sixteen in the skin or hair. Even if looking sixteen is all that matters, then going for external remedies like surgery and creams is not a long lasting solution. Even if you go for a skin surgery, you will eventually look the same over a period of time or even much worse. If you want to remain y...

How unfortunate is the person who when achieves success or happiness, has no family to share it with? Even more unfortunate than this person is one, who has a family but his achievements do not matter to them; especially to the parents, who instead of rejoicing at their children's success, belittle their efforts. Much worse than this, would be parents discriminating against one of their children, while rejoicing at others' success. What would you say to that? Home is where the heart is! Perhaps God does not consider it important for all humans to have such biological relations who would share their happiness with them. Biological relations are not the only relations in the world. Those who rejoice at our success are our true family, true friends and true relationships. Home is where we are welcomed and loved.

Chapter Seven "Moonbeams" from The Pathan by Khan Abdul Ghani Khan