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The Hidden Thorns in Life’s Garden

In life, we often believe we are nurturing a beautiful garden, unaware that the protective gloves we wear shield us from painful realities. For me, those gloves represented my brother, competitive and favoured by our mother. My younger siblings, whom I once believed to be the tender flowers of our family, turned out to be the thorns, pricking and hurting my brother in ways I could not see. In my quest for peace, I often defended my younger siblings, thinking they were wronged and misunderstood. My brother and I frequently ended up in conflict, driven by my attempts to protect those I thought were innocent. I believed I was fostering harmony and love, but I was blind to the pain my siblings were causing him. Three years ago, when my brother passed away from COVID, the protective gloves were torn away. Without him, I was left exposed, my hands now vulnerable to the very thorns I had once nurtured. The pain of losing him was compounded by the realisation that those same thorns had turne...

Is This Necessary ?

In today's fast-paced and information-driven world, our lives are often cluttered with an overwhelming array of activities, commitments, and distractions. Many of us find ourselves juggling multiple responsibilities, constantly on the move, and rarely taking a moment to pause and reflect on what truly matters. The truth is, most of what we say and do in our daily lives is not essential. In the pursuit of a simpler, more fulfilling existence, we must learn to discern between the essential and the inessential. Our obsession with busyness and the constant need to be connected often leaves us feeling frazzled and perpetually in a rush. We fill our days with an array of tasks, commitments, and activities, most of which may not contribute significantly to our well-being or long-term happiness. The idea of simplifying our lives by eliminating the inessential can be a powerful tool in achieving a sense of time and peace. The first step in this process is to identify what truly matters to u...