World Affairs And Beyond

The sun was setting, casting a warm, golden hue over the courtyard where Baba Jee sat every evening. His weathered face carried tales of wisdom, and his eyes sparkled with a glint of insight. I often found solace in his stories, seeking guidance from his years of experience. This evening, I approached him, eager for a conversation that weighed heavy on my mind. "Salaam, Baba Jee," I greeted respectfully, settling down on the mat next to him. "Wa alaikum as-salam, Sobia, my dear child. What brings you here today?" he responded, his voice soft but laden with an air of authority. "I wanted to talk to you about friendships and relationships," I began tentatively. "I've been thinking a lot about who real friends are and also about the kind of person one should look for when thinking about marriage." Baba Jee nodded, his eyes seemingly scanning the distant horizon. "Ah, friendships and marriages. Two paths intertwined with the fabric of trust,...

Marriage is a profound journey, a union of two souls embarking on a lifelong adventure. Yet, this path is often riddled with challenges, and the key to a successful married life lies in navigating those challenges together. In this guide, we will explore the building blocks of a successful married life, drawing from time-tested wisdom and contemporary insights to help you build a strong and lasting relationship. Communication: The Cornerstone of Connection Effective communication is the foundation upon which a successful married life is built. It's the bridge that connects two individuals, allowing them to understand each other's thoughts, emotions, and needs. To nurture this crucial aspect of your relationship: 1. Active Listening: Take the time to truly listen to your partner. Give them your undivided attention, ask questions, and show empathy. Being heard is a fundamental human need, and active listening is a way to fulfill this need for your spouse. 2. Open and Honest Dial...

I have come across people who enter into marriages, particularly love marriages, with the hope that they will transform their lives magically. They think love marriages are like magic, and work miracles; the way they see on television. If you are not happy being single, you can never be happy being married. Happiness comes from within. Marriage, be it arranged or love, needs a lot of work. Building homes takes energy, time, compromises and patience. It does not need "love" alone. Homes break when you listen to the judgements of other people about the people you live with. First of all, when entering into a love marriage, if you expect all your wishes and desires to be met by your loyal slave only at the wave of your magic wand, then you are an idiot. That is not how marriages work. If you enter into marriage with the aim of controlling your in-laws, you are being an idiot once again, driven by Adrenalin and ambition, or maybe by Star Plus. You probably could not find...