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Being vs. Doing

In a world that often emphasizes productivity and achievements, it's essential to remember that our worth is not solely determined by what we do but also by who we are as individuals. The concept of being a "human being" versus a "human doing" highlights the significance of our intrinsic qualities, character, and values in shaping our identities. While our actions and accomplishments are undoubtedly a part of our lives, they don't define our entire existence. Who we are at our core, our beliefs, our kindness, and our ability to connect with others are fundamental aspects of our humanity. Striving to find a balance between "being" and "doing" is a journey that many embark on throughout their lives. It's essential to recognize that our actions should align with our true selves and the values we hold dear. When we prioritize who we are as individuals, we often find a deeper sense of fulfillment and contentment. The quality of our relatio

Stop Giving Your Heart to People Who Need a Brain

In the complex world of human relationships, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions and attachments. We often find ourselves investing our time, energy, and emotions into individuals who, in hindsight, may not have been the best recipients for our love and affection. It's a common human experience to give our hearts to those who need a brain – people who may not appreciate or reciprocate the depth of our feelings. In this article, we'll explore the concept of being discerning in our emotional investments and discuss why it's crucial to stop giving your heart to such individuals. Before delving deeper into this topic, it's essential to understand the difference between people who genuinely deserve our love and those who might not. People who need a brain in this context are those who display characteristics or behaviours that make them unsuitable for a deep emotional connection. This can encompass a range of traits, including selfishness, emotional u

Exploring the Wisdom of Baba Jee

On a warm afternoon, I found myself walking down the bustling streets of our town, heading towards the familiar spot where Baba Jee sat. The small, weathered corner was his chosen place, where he greeted those seeking his wisdom. Today, I had a pressing question on my mind, one that had been bothering me for a while, and I needed answers. Approaching Baba Jee, I greeted him with a respectful nod and a warm smile. He acknowledged my presence with a serene look in his eyes. With curiosity brimming, I decided to broach the topic that had been bothering me. "Baba Jee," I began, "I came to see you again because I couldn't help but wonder why you avoided my question about Palestine the last time we spoke." Baba Jee looked at me, his eyes reflecting a deep sense of contemplation. Then, in his calm and soothing voice, he responded, "Child, I didn't avoid your question. I was waiting for a better answer to come to me. Some questions are not to be answered in has

The Power of Perspective: Why Quick Judgments Aren't Always True

In a world that constantly bombards us with information, we often find ourselves making quick judgments about people, situations, and events. It's almost second nature to form opinions based on our initial perceptions. But have you ever stopped to consider that your perception isn't always an accurate reflection of reality? Let's take a moment to explore the importance of not rushing to judgment and understanding that your perspective is just one piece of the puzzle. The Illusion of Perception Our perception of the world around us is shaped by our experiences, beliefs, and emotions. It's like looking through a unique lens that distorts reality to some degree. What we see, hear, and feel is filtered through this lens, which can often lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations. Imagine you're walking down the street, and you see a person who looks dishevelled and is muttering to themselves. Your immediate reaction might be to assume they are homeless or mentally

Caught In A Passing Dream

Souls meet in this realm,  Confined in earthly vessels, dwell,  In bodies, our love constrained,  This union, a heart's silent refrain. Each touch, a glimpse of grace,  Love's yearning, a timeless chase,  Yet, these bodies, barriers they seem,  Two souls imprisoned in a dream. The real rendezvous, untethered and pure,  In the realm of souls, we endure,  Love's dance, unbound and free,  Infinite love, our destiny. Where bodies fade, souls unite,  In the realm of love's pure light,  No barriers, no chains to bind,  Two souls, forever unified. In that sacred space, we'll find,  Love's essence, one of a kind,  Souls in harmony, forever closely tied,  The union of hearts, love undefined. © Sobia Nosheen (20th October 2023)

Is This Necessary ?

In today's fast-paced and information-driven world, our lives are often cluttered with an overwhelming array of activities, commitments, and distractions. Many of us find ourselves juggling multiple responsibilities, constantly on the move, and rarely taking a moment to pause and reflect on what truly matters. The truth is, most of what we say and do in our daily lives is not essential. In the pursuit of a simpler, more fulfilling existence, we must learn to discern between the essential and the inessential. Our obsession with busyness and the constant need to be connected often leaves us feeling frazzled and perpetually in a rush. We fill our days with an array of tasks, commitments, and activities, most of which may not contribute significantly to our well-being or long-term happiness. The idea of simplifying our lives by eliminating the inessential can be a powerful tool in achieving a sense of time and peace. The first step in this process is to identify what truly matters to u

The Unseen Stories in Ordinary Objects

In a glass, wonders reside,  Crystal vessel, where dreams collide.  Transparent artistry, clear and bright,  A world within, a pure delight. Elixir's home, where flavours play,  Sips of life, throughout the day.  Liquid stories, it does contain,  From water's kiss to wine's sweet reign. A vessel of transformation, see,  Morphing states of matter, free.  From ice to steam, it does it all,  A vessel's magic, both big and small. A lens to peer through time and space,  Reflecting beauty in its embrace.  An instrument for toasts and cheers,  Dispelling worries, calming fears. A conduit to celebrate, connect,  Friendship's bond it does protect.  A symbol of life's endless stream,  In a glass, we find a cherished dream. © Sobia Nosheen (19th October 2023)