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Embracing Gratitude and Realism in Our Relationships

In the journey of life, it's crucial to recognize and appreciate the kindness extended to us by others, each in their own unique way. Whether big or small, these acts of kindness contribute to the fabric of our existence, and it's essential to express gratitude. In this interconnected world, it's also wise to place trust and expectations in a higher power, be it God or any divine force one believes in. By doing so, we can find solace in the understanding that humans, despite their best intentions, are limited in their abilities. Human beings are just that; human. While their presence in our lives is a gift to be cherished, expecting them to be all-mighty is unrealistic. This acknowledgement is not a dismissal of their importance, but rather a reminder that they, too, have their own set of limitations. Gratitude for the people who bring positivity into our lives should be the focal point. Instead of burdening them with unrealistic expectations, we should embrace the uniquene

Choosing Wisely for Marriage

The sun was setting, casting a warm, golden hue over the courtyard where Baba Jee sat every evening. His weathered face carried tales of wisdom, and his eyes sparkled with a glint of insight. I often found solace in his stories, seeking guidance from his years of experience. This evening, I approached him, eager for a conversation that weighed heavy on my mind. "Salaam, Baba Jee," I greeted respectfully, settling down on the mat next to him. "Wa alaikum as-salam, Sobia, my dear child. What brings you here today?" he responded, his voice soft but laden with an air of authority. "I wanted to talk to you about friendships and relationships," I began tentatively. "I've been thinking a lot about who real friends are and also about the kind of person one should look for when thinking about marriage." Baba Jee nodded, his eyes seemingly scanning the distant horizon. "Ah, friendships and marriages. Two paths intertwined with the fabric of trust,

The Unfathomable Depth of Love

Love, the powerful force that binds hearts and souls, often reveals its true depth in moments of parting. The sentiment expressed in the quote, "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation," encapsulates the poignant truth that the full magnitude of love remains obscured until the shadow of separation looms. It is in these moments of impending loss or distance that the profound depths of love become starkly apparent. Love is a complex emotion, transcending boundaries, cultures, and time. In the throes of daily life, it can be easy to take the depth of love for granted. Routine can cloak the intensity of emotions, allowing us to overlook the profound impact that our connections have on us. However, when faced with the impending separation from a loved one, whether it's physical distance, the end of a relationship, or the passing of a dear soul, the depths of love are profoundly stirred. The impending separation acts as a catalyst, peeling away the layers of f

Stop Giving Your Heart to People Who Need a Brain

In the complex world of human relationships, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions and attachments. We often find ourselves investing our time, energy, and emotions into individuals who, in hindsight, may not have been the best recipients for our love and affection. It's a common human experience to give our hearts to those who need a brain – people who may not appreciate or reciprocate the depth of our feelings. In this article, we'll explore the concept of being discerning in our emotional investments and discuss why it's crucial to stop giving your heart to such individuals. Before delving deeper into this topic, it's essential to understand the difference between people who genuinely deserve our love and those who might not. People who need a brain in this context are those who display characteristics or behaviours that make them unsuitable for a deep emotional connection. This can encompass a range of traits, including selfishness, emotional u

True Relationships

How unfortunate is the person who when achieves success or happiness, has no family to share it with? Even more unfortunate than this person is one, who has a family but his achievements do not matter to them; especially to the parents, who instead of rejoicing at their children's success, belittle their efforts. Much worse than this, would be parents discriminating against one of their children, while rejoicing at others' success. What would you say to that? Home is where the heart is! Perhaps God does not consider it important for all humans to have such biological relations who would share their happiness with them. Biological relations are not the only relations in the world. Those who rejoice at our success are our true family, true friends and true relationships. Home is where we are welcomed and loved.

Dusty On Relationships: Tip # 1

Dusty says,  "You don't necessarily have to make one person's life miserable, in order to make another person happy."